Today’s blog has three parts.
The first part is about: How do you find a significant other who would love you for who you are?
The second part is about answering a very important question that definitely has many complications. If you are taking care of someone with chronic conditions, it can be taxing on your relationship and your body. Do you remember to take time to take care of you and your significant other? I will explain.
Last, but no least: How do you nurture your relationships?
We’ve talked about the importance of love in our healing process, so that person you are going to spend the rest of your life with could really a big part of that healing process.
How are we going to find that “special someone”, the one who truly loves you, for your heart, for you, that has the ability to commit to you, no matter what is going on in your lives, and has self-control, that would not forget when God forbid there is an argument? Doesn’t that sound nice?
Where are we going to find that special person for you, as it seems everywhere you look there are so many people who aren’t worth your time? – Tweet this!
Don’t fall short. You are a gem and you deserve someone that kisses the ground you walk on. How are you going to find that person?
Caution: My advice may make you mad, but it keeps the water from getting muddy. My advice could help you wean out the people the truly deserve you!
Stick with ones that fill your life with positivity and love.
When choosing a potential mate, in order to know whether the person is worth sticking around for, I advise all my patients to hold onto any intimacy, not to cloud the water.
If the other person really wants to be with you and truly loves you for your heart, they will respect your decision and wait.
This will test to make sure they have the self-control and loyalty you desire in a spouse. May I repeat? You are a gem, and deserve someone who will kiss the ground you walk on, someone who really loves you for you, all of you, not just your privates.
How are you going to find someone that really loves you for you? Hold off on sex…got it…I know your privates hate me right now, but you will love me when you can get your party on with someone that is really committed to you… That is how amazing you are!
So amazing!!!
Chronic Disease and Social Health
Love heals, but…
How Do You Take Care of Someone with a Chronic Condition?
If you are taking care of someone with a chronic condition, it can be taxing on your relationship and your body. So remember to take time to take care of you and your significant other. You are an amazing person to take care of someone in need.
Patience and love are key when taking care of someone with chronic condition. – Tweet this!
Tenderness and empathy will never fail us. To optimize that relationship, it is important to listen actively and be nonjudgmental, answer questions as they come up, work to clear up misunderstandings, validate and respect their feelings, help them to relax, and always allow for setbacks and regressions, as it is all part of the healing process, it is actually part of the healing process. To get the support you need, it is important to join a support group, so you can continue being the gem that you are—inside and out!
Nurturing Your Relationships
In order to nurture your relationships, first be your own best friend and build that positive self-image and self-esteem—because you are worth it!
We know you are going through a lot, take your time to look for quality friendships, focusing on the positive aspects of every relationship. Open yourself up by listening and sharing, but respect boundaries and privacy, accepting others for who they are.
Remember, it is never too late to either build a new friendship or reconnect with old friends, as maintaining a healthy friendship or relationship is always equal give and take. Always let them know they are appreciated. Investing time in finding amazing quality friends is important in healing chronic inflammation and disease.
Great relationships are super healing. You deserve great relationships…you deserve to have people around you that are going to lift you up, not drag you down. Let’s get love in, let’s get healing!!!
Keep all the positive and loving people close and distance yourself from the negative people in your life.
Did I tell you how awesome you are? Sooo awesome!!!
You’ve got this!
Love does heal!
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Madiha Saeed, MD ABIHM
Holistic Mom, MD
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